{"id":243,"date":"2015-01-19T08:07:11","date_gmt":"2015-01-19T08:07:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/?p=243"},"modified":"2015-01-19T14:50:09","modified_gmt":"2015-01-19T14:50:09","slug":"negotiation-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/negotiation-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Negotiation tips"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re in business, you negotiate&#8211;every day of the week. While you may not be negotiating <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inc.com\/peter-economy\/learn-the-7-life-hacks-of-really-wealthy-people.html\" target=\"_blank\">multimillion-dollar deals<\/a> with customers or vendors, chances are you&#8217;re negotiating all sorts of things&#8211;from a hoped-for raise, to a flexible work schedule, to a plum assignment on a product development team.<\/p>\n<p>Negotiation is a skill that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inc.com\/peter-economy\/10-powerful-ways-to-10x-your-performance-starting-right-now.html\" target=\"_blank\">gets better with practice<\/a>&#8211;the more you negotiate, the more comfortable you&#8217;ll be and the better your skills. That said, there are certain negotiation tips that can quickly move you <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inc.com\/peter-economy\/11-fantastic-productivity-tricks-you-can-use-today.html\" target=\"_blank\">from amateur to pro status.<\/a> Give these a try the next time you find yourself in a negotiation, and you will exceed your expectations every time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Don&#8217;t say yes to a proposal the first time you hear it<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The fact is, most negotiators make an initial offer that is lower than the number that they are prepared to settle for&#8211;it&#8217;s just an expected part of the negotiation game. When someone makes an offer, think it over first and don&#8217;t be too desperate to accept it. If the offer doesn&#8217;t meet your needs, then make a counteroffer that does.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Do conduct the negotiation at your site or at a neutral location<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You put the other party at an advantage when you agree to conduct the negotiation at their offices. Try to schedule negotiations at your offices whenever possible. Worst case, pick a neutral location that evens the playing field.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Don&#8217;t be the first to name a price<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a rule in negotiation that the first party to name a price is the one that ends up losing. Push the other party to do most of the talking and to reveal exactly what it is that they&#8217;re looking for&#8211;and the outline of a possible deal.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Do deal only with decision makers<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inc.com\/lolly-daskal\/10-smart-tips-to-prevent-distractions-and-sharpen-your-focus.html\" target=\"_blank\">a waste of your time<\/a> to negotiate with people who don&#8217;t have the authority to agree to a deal. Whenever possible, push to negotiate with the person who is in the position to say &#8220;Yes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Don&#8217;t negotiate with yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you make a proposal to another party, give them time to consider it and respond. Don&#8217;t be so desperate that you lower your price even before they have a chance to respond.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Do control your emotions and temper<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Some negotiations can get very heated, however, when you lose your cool, then you&#8217;re going to make mistakes. Not only that, but you reduce the chances of getting the deal that you want. Always be professional, and keep your emotions and temper in check.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Don&#8217;t be afraid to say no<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The most powerful word you can utter in any negotiation is &#8220;No.&#8221; If you&#8217;re not satisfied with a proposal, then don&#8217;t hesitate to use it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>8. Do seek win-win outcomes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Every party in a negotiation should be a winner&#8211;when you&#8217;ve got a win-lose situation, the outcome is imbalanced, and long-term relationships will be damaged. Seek win-win outcomes that will <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inc.com\/peter-economy\/5-remarkably-powerful-habits-of-great-leaders.html\" target=\"_blank\">build your business relationships,<\/a> not destroy them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>9. Don&#8217;t be intimidated<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remember: the other party needs you as much as you need them. Refuse to be intimidated.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re in business, you negotiate&#8211;every day of the week. While you may not be negotiating multimillion-dollar deals with customers or vendors, chances are you&#8217;re negotiating all sorts of things&#8211;from a hoped-for raise, to a flexible work schedule, to a plum assignment on a product development team. Negotiation is a skill that gets better with\u2026 <span class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/negotiation-tips\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32,26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-leadership","category-web-fragments"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=243"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":244,"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243\/revisions\/244"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adriangrigoras.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}